Trust me

The two most common words humans say to each other (after thank-you and sorry) is perhaps ‘Trust Me’. It’s a statement, an emotion, a warning and an end too. You don’t say it to any random person out there, you share the word ‘Trust’ only where it genuinely lies. It gets build over a period of time and as they say, doesn’t really take a second to finish off.

I feel there is thing with extroverts (like me) that they like to pour their heart out to people they’re close to. They will love telling and sharing their mood, day and life things with you because that is their comfort. They feel happy and light after speaking their mind and heart out. There is always so much said about the depth that introverts have and their sheer ability to keep them constrained to their thoughts and themselves.

But the extroverts, perhaps never really get their due. Imagine a world of just introverts. There are only people who speak less and lesser, who are convenient with themselves and their thoughts. Trust me it wouldn’t be a great one. No doubt silence is golden, but that doesn’t undermine the power of speech and expression. And that is why anything that the extroverts say has got some value I believe. To some they may seem as a blabber mouth but trust me most of the times the extroverts wear their heart on sleeves and their words are exactly what they feel truly and deeply. If they love you, they will tell you a million times; if they miss you, they’ll tell you even then; if they want to understand you, they’ll make all the apparent efforts to do that, if they don’t want to hear you, they will tell you that as well. But what if they don’t say all this, what if they turn quiet. Trust me, it takes a great deal of courage for extroverts to not say about something, to not say to someone that they need a shoulder, to not express what they are exactly feeling, to not tell you that you have made them sad, to not share their happiness with you. When that really happens, trust me that are fine being without you.

Indeed the introverts have a huge fan following! They are perceived to be more deep and emotional. The extroverts are taken merely to be a mouth that speaks and less often a heart that feels. But you know, there is nothing more beautiful in saying what you actually feel inside. In a world of silent misunderstandings, isn’t it refreshing to have someone around who is all ears (and all words) to give it all a break!
It indeed is and that is why, trust me when I say once a extrovert stops blabbering (as the world says) they wouldn’t probably begin again. Trust Me!