Just for You!

Its kind of insane to see and discover all what life can bring to you, but what is even more interesting- how we feel it, how we let it get to our nerves, how we shun it or how we just evolve and learn through it.

For a generation like ours, falling in and out of love is a cakewalk. There exist ‘flings’, ‘lets give it a chance’, ‘hook-ups’, ‘no-strings attached’ or any other comfortable word you like to give it so that you don’t end up being in Love! Now the real story begins for those who are still an old-school, who still value little things like the most precious ones, for whom a hand written note means the world, for whom understanding their people tops the priority list, for whom giving a rejection is as hurtful and being rejected.

Having believed in the idea of love in my life so far, I have come to know one thing, that its never the time that determines your affection and respect for someone. What you couldn’t feel with someone in 2 years, you may feel it in 2 months. It’s about the genuineness and the character of the person you open up to. A risk, a fear, a gamble, but if it worked out, you have found a gem! Of course what about the 70% chance that it didn’t work out.. well then its an experience with a package of tears, sleepless nights, anxiety and perpetual missing. The lesson you learn and the perspective you gain comes as a residue there. Yet, a bad deal I know!

This heart I tell you, is so silly yet cunning.. It loses to mind in the beginning and then gives up when the mind clears the air. So unfair, just like life! But do we stop living life? No. Should we stop loving? Not at all. Its so unfair to us and the people around. You may have a past that disturbs you and present that you didn’t call for, but you have a future to build. You have all the love in you that just didn’t work out with the right person no matter how nice the person was. I don’t ask you to start building it overnight, but believe that there is someone out there who is just for you. Remember the person who just walked away from you, even they at some point of time thought they have found ‘the one’. Feel that. I am sure you’re that kind. There are lessons, realities, acceptance, baggage and a million other things to make you feel what you feel but may be if you see it in entirety, it was raw and beautiful.

PS. If you somewhere felt that I was telling this only to you, yes I was.

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